Thursday, August 21, 2008

Aren't these children gorgeous??????
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I hardly ever update my blog anymore, but wanted to share a few pics that were taken last weekend. The family is doing great!

Yosef is in 5th grade this year. His math is at a 6th grade level. Yeah!!!! His reading is still behind, but is steadly improving. He is such a good student! And such a good son! So much bonding has occurred in our family, especially with Yosef. He's an incredible kid.

Kaitlyn is in 3rd grade this year. People have been saying that she is an old soul in a young body. That's because she's such a quiet, thoughtful little girl who is so happy doing little crafts, knitting, etc. She is soooooo sweet.....when she's not throwing a melodramatic fit. We're working on that.

Mihret is in 2nd grade and is doing great. Of course! She just continues to do so well in school. She is just an amazing little thing. I can't imagine life without her.

Lucas is in 1st grade and is still such a funny little fireball. We're working on teaching him responsibility. All of the kids now have a chore chart and a weekly allowance of one dollar that is paid for good work. The key is that I do not remind them to do their jobs. If they do them, they get paid. If they don't, they get deductions. Lucas is finally getting the hang of it.

This chore chart has been such an awesome thing for our family. I am so much less stressed now. I don't have to tell the kids all of the things they need to do anymore because it's all written down. The drastic reduction in my talking (bossing) alone has helped tremendously. Plus, with the kids all helping so much, we have so much more free time to spend together as a family. The kids are so motivated by the reward of family time each night. By the time they move out of the house, I think I might have evolved into a really good mom!

Lucas is continuing to heal from his burn. The scar has had four infections this year. Not good. Three of them have been staff. Not MRSA, which is good. He recently had steroid injections in the scar. Already, I can feel the scar shrinking and becoming smaller. I don't really see it yet, but my hand feels it when I rub him everyday. I am so thankful for this improvement. But still, this is not exactly what God has asked me to pray for. I continue to ask God to give Lucas new skin. But for now, this is an incredible miracle that we are so very thankful for.

And the other news is that we are trying to sell our house. We feel that God is prompting us to start moving in a new direction and the first step is to get our house ready to put on the market. Let's just say that this is going to require a lot of money and work and time. We're in no hurry and we're not stressing. Just doing what we feel like God is leading us to do.

5 comments:

Owlhaven said...

Heather, the kids look wonderful! I can't believe you had the patience to make Mihret's braids so teensy! Then again, when I do braids, I have 4 daughters to braid, so maybe I tend more towards the bigger braids for that reason! In the past 24 hours I've spent 5 hours on hair!

So glad you are doing well

Hugs
Mary

JourneytoFamily said...

Your kids are SO big now, and they are so beautiful!!! Thank you for the update. I'm so glad to hear things are going well with all of them, but especially with the bonding with Josef! What an answer to prayer! Lucas' infections are scary, but I'm glad that he is still healing.

I will pray that you are able to do everything you need to do to the house, so you can move on to the next phase!

The Red Thread Kids: said...

Just found your blog! I think you do still have readers! Congratulations on your family!

Valerie said...

Came across your blog while on Stacy's. I am an adoptive mom through Liberia. Even still reading your blog some many similar challenges and joys! Thanks for sharing. Valerie

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful brood of children..Only the God lord could have made them. Wow, I love, love, love ethiopian/eriterian food.
you inspired me to try injera at home, I do make breads and Dosa(the indian fermented bread,made with lentils and rice, much like an injera. you a good mother.